I've lived all my life wanting to please people. I was never the badass type nor was I the maangas type. Being the good guy was something I wanted to be 24/7. It's worked for me.
Growing up, I wondered why the ladies had a thing for the bad guys... In high school and college, there were a lot of girls who liked the bad guys. REALLY? Why? Fellas, if you're thinking the same thing, fret not, it's only a matter of time.
You have to continue being the good guy... With all the hate, anger, rudeness, impatience, lies, and all the negative things that are happening in the world today somebody has to counter that. Even if you don't get noticed with the little things like opening the door for someone or falling in line or letting someone go ahead in the elevator, it's still the right thing.
In the end, the good guys win. Believe me. Everything will fall into place. I used to think that being the good guy isn't "cool" to the ladies. They wanted the badass type. I was starting to doubt myself. But as I mentioned, everything will fall into place. It's only a matter of time guys... Just keep at it.
Good guys get the girl! I got the girl! :) And she's an amazing person.
Just be the good guy. Just be the good guy. Just be the good guy.