Thursday, July 14, 2011

I'm not the bad guy

I've lived all my life wanting to please people. I was never the badass type nor was I the maangas type. Being the good guy was something I wanted to be 24/7. It's worked for me.

Growing up, I wondered why the ladies had a thing for the bad guys... In high school and college, there were a lot of girls who liked the bad guys. REALLY? Why? Fellas, if you're thinking the same thing, fret not, it's only a matter of time.

You have to continue being the good guy... With all the hate, anger, rudeness, impatience, lies, and all the negative things that are happening in the world today somebody has to counter that. Even if you don't get noticed with the little things like opening the door for someone or falling in line or letting someone go ahead in the elevator, it's still the right thing.

In the end, the good guys win. Believe me. Everything will fall into place. I used to think that being the good guy isn't "cool" to the ladies. They wanted the badass type. I was starting to doubt myself. But as I mentioned, everything will fall into place. It's only a matter of time guys... Just keep at it.

Good guys get the girl! I got the girl! :) And she's an amazing person.

Just be the good guy. Just be the good guy. Just be the good guy.


MYAngligaw said...

you wonder why some girls like the bad guys?

i guess some girls just want to settle for second bests.. :) hehe..

Arlene said...

You're right. A few times you may be abused, laughed at, ridiculed, be OP (out of place) -- but in the end, it will be worth it.

R. said...

The main question to ask is why get attracted to a girl who is into bad guys?

I understand what you're trying to communicate here, but with all due respect, your approach is too simplistic.

Just be yourself, and somehow the person who shares the same values and views that you do will gravitate towards yourself. If a girl wouldn't want you for who you are, she isn't worth it, plain and simple. No need to be someone else.

johnnyarvin said...

You said before in your old post that it's not true that good guys finish last, because they do not finish at all sa sobrang pagiging good nila sa iba.

Pero thank God you're happy now. Galing, you got the girl! All the best!

angelle said...

i'm currently in a relationship with a good guy and trust me, it's the best decision i've made in my life so far :)

RiaRamona said...

I hope the same applies to good girls.

Xander said...

I agre to this one... continue to be good even if others are not..

Lhai Cruz said...

it's august 1 today!!! I'll say a little prayer for the one who made me proud to be Filipino again! I love your lola!